When we first got married, we were living with my in laws. It took us almost 11/2 years until we decided to move out and be independent on our own. It was a tough decision at first but we proceeded without looking back. Now, i would say that im proud of our decision. It's the best decision we've ever made.
Finally we can have our own space..meaning to say we're not just confined to our small room. We can move around freely in our own house. Faris can finally have his own space to play. We're not bound to follow anyone's rules and yeah, basically we can do whatever we want.
Am not saying in-laws are bad..it just a matter of luck i would say. Some can mingled around like their own friends and family members but to some they just look at you as if you're an outsider that doesn't belong to their family. So you'll be criticized for whatever you do.
A friend of mine used to tell me how lucky she was for having such a good and friendly future in-laws. Yeah, lucky until she finally got married with her hubby...it took her only 2 months to see the ugly sides of her in-laws. Last time I check, she moved out with her hubby and life doesn't get any better than that.
Finally we can have our own space..meaning to say we're not just confined to our small room. We can move around freely in our own house. Faris can finally have his own space to play. We're not bound to follow anyone's rules and yeah, basically we can do whatever we want.
Am not saying in-laws are bad..it just a matter of luck i would say. Some can mingled around like their own friends and family members but to some they just look at you as if you're an outsider that doesn't belong to their family. So you'll be criticized for whatever you do.
A friend of mine used to tell me how lucky she was for having such a good and friendly future in-laws. Yeah, lucky until she finally got married with her hubby...it took her only 2 months to see the ugly sides of her in-laws. Last time I check, she moved out with her hubby and life doesn't get any better than that.
I don't wanna revealed anything about my in-laws, sometimes things are not meant to be told. That was in the past and if it still in the present..what the hell, i just don't give a hood. I've got better things to do...faris is a good example...hehe~
Know what...now that we're living on our own, i am getting fond of cooking. I can even cook at night on weekdays...my hubby claims that his tummy is getting buncit day by day...but hey~bukan mmg buncit ke?
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