Sepet

Recently i spoke to Susan about Faris and she told me that Faris resembles his papa a LOT....

Susan kate aku sepet...jadi faris bukan ikut muka aku..owh~benarkah aku sesepet itu susan?

So, aku upload gamba ni to prove to the world yg dolu aku takla sepet sangat...iyee~tak caye cube tgk...hehehe~

So faris ade rupe aku tak?

Otak kanan- Teknik Jepun Schihida

Last week i received an email from a fren about an info which i think is useful for all the parents and parents to be out there. I've been practicing these methods everyday especially before he falls asleep. I just cut and copy though...the credits goes to the one who wrote this email..

Subject: Otak Kanan - Teknik Jepun Shichida Methods

Beberapa minggu lepas boss aku ada cakap kat aku yg dia antaq anak die 2 thn pergi Sichida kelas...yakni kelas yg di uruskan oleh jepun melatih anak-anak befikir menggunakan otak sebelah kanan. Otak sebelah kanan ni lebih efektif sebenarmya dari otak sebelah kiri tetapi kena practise sikitlah penggunaannya. Kelas ni mahal,kalau kelas tadika juanna yg aku nak masukkan tahun depan tu cost nye lebih tinggi dari cost kite satu semester kat ITM, tapi boss aku ni atas kesedaran bahawa ramai sgt cine yang pergi kelas tu utk ajar anak2 depa dan melayu cuma setengah kerat aje...dia pun bersetuju ngan niat ikhlasnye untuk ajar aku dan staff melayu yg lain.

Aku pun nak korang practisekan bende ni kat anak korang, sebab baru seminggu aku buat kat anak aku...dah nampak keberkesanannya.

1. Sewaktu anak nak tidur atau tidur-tidur ayam, cakap kat die sepenuh hati dan sejujurnya yang kita sayang kat dia, dia budak baik, dia anak soleh, dia budak kuat, tak sakit, dia budak pandai dsb. Sbb during tidur-tidur ayam ni otak kanan sedang bekerja, otak kiri dah tidur dah, tapi kena buat seikhlas hati...kalau tengah marah ..tak jadi. kalau anak korang tu dah tidur,ramas- ramas jari atau tangan dia, macam picitlah supaya dia kembali berada dalam tidur2 ayam punya situation. Aku buat kat anak aku sebab die bangun pagi lambat pas tu siap melalak-lalak lagi, aku cakap hari-hari kat dia, dia budak baik, dia suka pergi sekolah, dia budak sihat, dia nak bangun awal.... sekarang 6.30 dah bukak mata termasuk sabtu n Ahad.

2. Start guna cards untuk ajar anak. Aku ajar ABC-Z guna card seminggu je,sekarang dah kenal semua huruf dah siap boleh eja perkataan pendek-pendek. .buat card banyak-banyak dan tunjuk kat dia orang cepat-cepat. .macam..a. .b..c..d. .e, insya Allah cepat die dapat sebab bila kita tunjuk kad laju-laju atau cepat-cepat otak kanan die bekerja keras untuk tangkap apa benda yang kite tunjuk tu...kita boleh buat card 1,2,3, gambar-gambar. .. potonglah gambar kat mana-mana dsb.

3. Gerak kerja tangan adalah hasil dari otak kanan, so ajar anak korang main tanah liat, main water colour, melukis, gunting kertas, origami dsb. memang le kite yang kene mengemas tapi takpe.......satu lagi cuba korang lukis gambar, contohnye rama2, tapi sebelah sahaja dan suruh die orang sambung lukis ikut apa yg korang lukis tu kat sebelah lagi...ini pun dapat mengaktifkan penggunaan otak kanan....Korang tau kenapa cine, ngan jepun pandai-pandai. ...sebab depa makan guna chopstik....chopstik tu mengaktifkan kerja tangan and as well gerakkan otak kanan.

4. Jgn marah-marah atau tengking anak........ sebab depa boleh simpan semuanya dalam otak kiri.......kalau termarah depa, pi balik kat cara no 1 tadi, and mintak maaf kat die......

5. Satu lagi develop they all punya imagination by start bercerita kat die orang dan suruh depa sambung cerite tu, walaupun cerita tu memang lah merapu takpa....... .. kita pun bukan tak biasa merapu...... .

6. Main teka-teki ngan they all, taruk satu barang dalam kotak tissue and suruh depa teka apa benda tu. First few times boleh bagi option macam.....bagi tau colour, bunyi, lama-lama depa boleh develop six sence by concentrating depa boleh teka apa benda dlm kotak tissue tu.......ni semua utk aktifkan otak sebelah kanan. Tapi ingat.....semua game yg hangpa nak buat ngan dia tu cuma boleh buat setengah jam sehari..tak payah lama-lama. Sebelum buat exercise ni, kena tarik nafas dalam-dalam and relaks...tak boleh buat time tengah nak masak ka, basuh kain ka tengok tv ka, tak jadi....Buat kena ikhlas, and merendah diri sikitlah bila dah terror ini semua satu cara yang Tuhan lagi Maha Mengetahui kalau Dia izin anak kite nak pandai Alhamdulillah tapi kita kena berusaha, dan bersyukur kalau dah berhasil sebab bila2 Dia boleh tarik balik..betui dak......Aku pun tengah try lagi ni... Lagi satu untuk berkongsi sesama pembaca....

Kaunselor UTM, Dr, Syed Mohd. Shafek pun ada cakap benda yang sama dan dia ada ckp ttg perkataan jangan kat anak-anak. kalau kita banyak sangat guna perkataan jangan kat anak-anak... .. itu lah yang anak akan buat....so lepas nie kena ganti perkataan jangan tu kepada perkataan lain plak...contohnya. ...Tolong senyap Abang,,,berbanding Jangan bising bang..

Dlm Islam sendiripun menggalakkan kita ibubapa bercakap2/berdoa dgn anak2 ketika mrk dlm proses nak tidur sbb pada ketika itulah di antara waktu2 doa dimakbulkan.

So kawan2...marila kite praktikkan cara2 diatas...x salah mencuba right?

Faris's world

Lame tak upload gamba faris...here they are~

Faris yg jarang ketawa...tp bila sekali ketawa...alaa~comelnye

Sesi beramah mesra dengan papa bear...muke cuak~



Tengok muncung tuu..panjangnye~buat muncung panjang2 dah jd hobi en. faris...




Papa kate mane peginye nasik kalo tak tumpah ke kuah, eh kuah tumpah ke nasik..ehehe. ..ni muncung ikut mama ke?



Faris and his froggie



Faris tgh suke...yeaayy...main air~



Posing tido anak beranak...sungguh berseni!



Cubaan nak tdokan faris...tak berjaya sbb mate die lg terbukak besar ade...



Faris tgh terpegun dgn kasutnye.....jakun betul anak mama ni~

How I Met My Hubby Part II

Hi guys! I was away yesterday...away from my laptop for a while. Faris was having a high fever yesterday... i even took a half day EL to send my baby to Dr..his fever was too high sampai terpakse masuk bullet dalam bontot...ouch~poor my baby faris. Today he's getting better.Alhamdulillah..


Ok, lets continue my story..about how i met my hubby...part II.


So, I miscalled that somebody...in fact a few miscalls before he finally responded to my calls. Here's our conversation:


Caller: Hello, ni sape td ade call saya ye?
Me: Ha'ah, ni sape ye?
Caller: Aik, awak yg call awk plak yg tanya...bukan saya ke yg patut tanya?
Me: Hehe, tadelaa....ni cicak ke?
Caller: Cicak? cicak mane plak ni?
Me: Alaa, kite pnah chat laa ko guna nickname cicak, ingat tak?
Caller: saya mane pnah chat...ni salah org ni..
Me: Huh? salah org...tp ko yg bagi no. ni...ko kate kalo pape tpon no ni...camne leh salah org plak ni?
Caller: Ni adela org yg bagi no ni...niwei, sape name ni?
Me: Ina, ko sape name?
Caller: Uik, panggil abang la...
Me: takmo, apsal lak nak panggil ko abang...ko bukan abang aku..hahaha~
Caller: Okla, panggil saya adeng...takpela nanti saya check sape yg bg no. saya, k.


I can't remember much laa...rasenye that's part of our conversation. Anyway, soon after that i discovered that that somebody who chatted with me was not Adeng..it was Nik. He purposely gave Adeng's hp no....konon2 nak kenekan laa...mmg terkene!


FYI, Adeng is my hubby's nickname. We continued talking on the phone for 2 months until i decided to meet him. Owwh, he lied to me that he is married with one teenage child.... so i called him Pakcik. Hehe~yes pakcik...but i did investigated his background with Nik and he told me that Adeng was never married...he's a bachelor..bujang trang tang lagi....


One sweet day we decided to meet up...I lied to him about everything...from the colour of my shirt to the type of shoes i'm wearing (konon2 cam minah indon laa...jupe plak kat kotaraya...sungguh sesuaii). The reason, so that i could observe him from afar...tgk what type of guy he is...hmmm~not bad..he looks like a nice guy so i proceeded to introduce myself to him...and everything turns out to be well, even on our first date.

We started to see each other every week...but i still called him pakcik. The reason? I dont want to fall in love easily...i want to get to know him first. I dont want to rush everything and ruin the relationship. I was also afraid that i couldnt get over my ex.


Ooh,there was this one time i cried because i was afraid i couldnt get over my ex... he comforted me and finally he admitted that he was falling in love with me. I told him that i dont want to get into a serious relationship with anyone but he said he's willing to wait. I was impressed by his patient...I called him pakcik in public and even my friend called him pakcik yet he still can cope with me..huhu~


Finally after few months of knowing each other, i finally open up my feelings and i admitted to him that i was falling in love with him too. I feel so comfortable around him and he gave me this kind of protection whenever I'm with him. I can finally let go of the past and all the pain.

We're in love for three years until we decided to tie the knot. We went thru a lot of obstacles but still remain together. We're from different stage of life and yet we overcome all the differences. But i have to admit, having a hubby 10 years older than me gave me a new perspective of life. He guided me thru and he showered me with love.


Alhamdulillah, after all those bad relationships... i finally met the ONE. The one destined for me. I really wish to say thank you to my ex for breaking up with me..it's a GOOD DECISION! Now, I'm blessed with a happy family... alhamdulillah. Things happened for a reason.So, no more kejian and cacian to my exs...haha!


Forget not of past loves
for they shall strengthen love
in the present
and heals the wounds of the future!


We owed big times to Nik, he was a major role player in our relationship...mekasih Nik!

How I Met My Hubby Part I

I was playing with Faris today after coming back from work...after few laughs together tah camne leh terkenang kenangan lama...terkenang kesah cinta aku dgn suamiku yg tercinta..cewah~

My hubby was never my classmate, my neighbour nor my officemate. People would asked me how i met with my hubby. Phew~it's a very long story indeed....if you dont mind reading my never ending story.

I broke up with someone somewhere in 2005. It was such a heartbreaking moment for me. I was never ready for the breakup..but somehow later on i do admit that guy was not really into me. Few months later, I went online and met somebody whom i felt comfortable chatting with but we never really interested in knowing each other. It was just a casual chat...we're mostly loyar buruk to each other.

One day I received this msg...from that somebody i met online. Well, he sent me his h/p no in case i needed someone to talk to. He was aware of my breakup... so i thought he was just being nice and caring. I was a student back then, so i rarely have any credits to call. So i just msg that somebody a few weeks after receiving his msg...thehehe...better late than never rite?

But guess what...that somebody never reply to my msg. Hmmm...well maybe a few miscalls would help. So i miscalled him......and....to be continued~

Freedom for the moment

Yeaaa~bos tade. Pastu blog bole sign in...it's really one rare situation.Bos tade and websense yg slalunye mengganggu idup aku tade for a while. Boring tul bile nk surf the web...ade jek yg kne block.Frenster, fb, ym jgn katelaa...itu sume haraam kat sini...huhu~

Smlm gatal tangan lagi...bz nk tuka layout ...lagi.macam2 gakla yang aku try sume tak kene dgn taste aku.Akhirnye dapatla yang ni...sedap mata memandang..hehe~ Ingat nk post sumthin smlm skali tgk jam...pheww~dah pukul 12mlm..perghh, my hubby will like questioned me wat the hell did i do until midnight...baik tdo..hehe.

Tho bos tade, tapi die dah meninggalkan harta karun kat aku berkoyan2...nak tanak kne gak siapkan...kate nak jadi pekerja cemerlang terbilang.

Oh, btw aku pose arini.Officially 9 days to go...hopefully i'll managed to finished it all. Ramadhan is coming soon..kejap jek nak raya ek.Pejam celik tetau faris pon dah besar...my goodness, rase cam baru smlm jek lahirkan die...watching him from terbaring sampaila dah nak jalan...btulla kate org, kalo dah ade anak sekejap jek masa berlalu....

Ops, look at the time now...cakap psl masa....it's time to start working.Ciao guys!

MU friendly match?

Hi all! i just finished updating my blog. cool ya...and it's as easy as kacang.

Well, i love the new look... what about you guys?

Ooh, today LRT is quite crowded than usual.. blamed it on the friendly match between MU and M'sia. Even the road is highly congested with few roadblocks..pheww~lucky we're not one of that MU fanatic fans..kalo tak mesti berasap kpale dalam kete..hehe~

I feel sorry though to my hubby... he was having this idea of watching the match on tv... he even booked the tv (huh, ade aku kesah?). Unfortunately it was not broadcasted on any channel last night ..not ESPN, tv1 or tv 3...hohoo~kesian..

Malam sabtu yang sejuk

Actually tetiap malam pon sejuk, aircond bukak tetiap malam. Tp yg menherankan aku ni time aku tgh kesejukan yg amat ni anak aku leh wat selambe jek tdo...selimut tah kemana..bantal tah kemana. Terer mamat ni.

Anak aku kalo malam mmg no problem tdo. Pukul 9 mlm jek siapla mate dah merah..papa die pon dukung letak atas katil. After a few guling2...aksi hindustan dgn papa die...akhirnye tdola die. Selalunye papa die yg tdo dulu...senang jek sebenanye nk tdo kan die ni. Janji ade org baring sebelah die.

Encik faris ni kul 12 mlm kompem bangun...nangis mintak susu. Minum susu pon sambil mate pejam...tetau sebotol dh abis. Slalunye shift bg susu kul 12 papa die...aku tdo lee...hehehe~

Kul 3pg, nangis lagi..kekadang aku x sedar sbb ingat bunyik alarm..hehe~sampaila die btul2 melalak kat tlinge aku...mmg kelam kabutla bangun. kadang2 die leh sondol plak kpale die kat badan aku...teknik ape kah ini?fine, ni sape2 sedar diela yg buat susu..

Mlm ni, papa die klua minum.so shift kul 12 aku dah wat...kul 3 kang papa die pandai2la.

Malam ni masak bubur faris siap2 takot bgn lambat pg esok. Pg td faris bgn awal...die gi tarik plak rambut aku...sabtu aku macam ari keje sbb kne bangun awal even tak kunci jam.Ade jek org yg sudi berkhidmat kejutkan aku...huhu~

The best thing is bile aku dah bangun, aku lak dengki kat papa die.Hehe..aku letak faris kat sebelah papa die...die nye tepuk muka papa die mmg no mercy nye lah. tarik rambut jgn cite...sepenuh ati...kesian lak papa die...tp papa die degil xmo layan lagila die dera papa die. kesian~

Faris's world

Got some photos of faris which was taken a few days ago.

Faris termenung memikirkan bile la mama nak belikn mainan utk die lagi...hmm~




Faris getting comfortable in his booster seat.

Faris dah takleh lompat2 bile bagi makan...the best he can do is tepuk2 tray..kesiann~

Love and hate

When we first got married, we were living with my in laws. It took us almost 11/2 years until we decided to move out and be independent on our own. It was a tough decision at first but we proceeded without looking back. Now, i would say that im proud of our decision. It's the best decision we've ever made.

Finally we can have our own space..meaning to say we're not just confined to our small room. We can move around freely in our own house. Faris can finally have his own space to play. We're not bound to follow anyone's rules and yeah, basically we can do whatever we want.

Am not saying in-laws are bad..it just a matter of luck i would say. Some can mingled around like their own friends and family members but to some they just look at you as if you're an outsider that doesn't belong to their family. So you'll be criticized for whatever you do.

A friend of mine used to tell me how lucky she was for having such a good and friendly future in-laws. Yeah, lucky until she finally got married with her hubby...it took her only 2 months to see the ugly sides of her in-laws. Last time I check, she moved out with her hubby and life doesn't get any better than that.

I don't wanna revealed anything about my in-laws, sometimes things are not meant to be told. That was in the past and if it still in the present..what the hell, i just don't give a hood. I've got better things to do...faris is a good example...hehe~

Know what...now that we're living on our own, i am getting fond of cooking. I can even cook at night on weekdays...my hubby claims that his tummy is getting buncit day by day...but hey~bukan mmg buncit ke?

Trip to Ikea

Last Saturday we went to IKEA. I’ve been browsing the online catalogue the whole week so that we won’t be over-budget… and that the maximum purchase should only costs us about RM250.

So off we go with Faris sleeping on my lap. My hubby took the wrong road…so, it took us almost 1 ½ hours to reached there. As soon as we arrived IKEA Faris automatically open his big eyes. Maybe he comes with an alarm system kot…haha~

Sampai2 perut pon dh lapar. So we just proceeded to the café makan ape yg bole. Faris pon mkn jgk kitorg bwk bekal utk dia…hehe~suke betul dia makan kt highchair.

Oh, IKEA’s highchair only cost about RM45. We didn’t buy though because I just bought him a FP’s booster seat…so we don’t have to worry about the space when Faris no longer needed it.

Lepas makan ape lagi….mari membeli belah. I took all those cheap items plus a huge mirror and 2 folding chairs. Ok, cheap items include bowls, set of glasses and entahla…overall 21 items…banyak sampai dh x boleh ingat. Time bayar…cam kompiden jek below RM300….skali cashier ckp,RM520 je.Hah!RM520…ape yang aku beli?? Nak buat muka kesian…xde kesan pon. Nak letak balik…ade yang kene maki nanti neh. So..marilah kluarkan itew plastic card….unwilling tp cashier tu peduli hape.

Lame gak menatap resit tu. Nampak cam sket…harga pon murah2 je. I looked at my hubby and there he was buat muka “tulaaa aku dah kate~” so, terkulat2 la kira balik..hmm~hoping that somehow or rather cashier tu wat silap..yes! I hope so……….kira 2,3 kali….oh no, cashier itu betul dan aku ini yg over-budget.

Did I mention that IKEA will charge us RM0.20 for any plastic bag use? Haa…susah ek, tau bawak beg plastic itam dr umah…hehehe~ If you don wanna pay for the plastic bag you can always opt for the blue bag which is recyclable @ RM1.90. As for us since we didn’t bring any bag (don’t think so faris’s bag is applicable here)…we chose the blue bag coz we got so many small items… soo convenient!

The picky eater

Recently, I cooked something for my baby boy. Well, afraid that he would be bored after eating the same kind of food everyday…I asked my mom whether there is any other recipe for me to try. My mom suggested that I added some spinach and anchovies to the porridge before blending it all. Urghh, spinach…hated that… well, I thought maybe it’s just me.

So, I proceeded with cooking the recipe… hopefully he would love it and would requested for more. To my disappointment he barely opens his own mouth when fed with the porridge. Ohh, such a failure… Faris usually open his mouth to almost everything…except sour foods. Is my baby boy a picky eater? Hopefully he won’t turn out to be just like me… I admit that I am a picky eater… as a child until now.

My mom used to troubled herself cooking twice because I have a lot of dislikes…I dislike beef, I used to dislike chicken, I used to dislike certain types of fish (only white meat please) and many more. So when my mom cooked for my brothers (these people would eat anything... no fuss, they just eat and can finished it all in minutes), she will just mixed everything and she’ll put aside a portion to cook especially for me. Yeah, me and only me! Lucky yeah…it was then. Do you believe in karma? Now everything come rolling back to me… tsk-tsk~

Tonight, before going to sleep… I managed to cook something for him. Hopefully he’ll love it! Say aaaa….faris~~

Friday the fun day!

Tomorrow is friday...yeay! I get really excited when its friday. This is the time where i would be in the office sitting there like im doing my work but my mind is floating sumwhere else...searching for a place to go this weekends...thehehe~

I am fortunate enough my hubby doesnt mind going out to crowded places. Am also lucky dat my baby faris can stand the crowd and sleep whenever he wants in the stroller. Maybe for the time being before he gets his kaki and runs all over the place...then maybe i have to reconsider about going out. Dont wanna be seen running around the mall chasing my lil boy...it would be a disaster then.

There was this time where we have to go to 3 different malls in a day just to search for faris's feeding bottle!Gosh, nila masenye aku menyumpah diri ini kenape la tertinggal botol kat kampung and kenapela beli botol yg susah sgt nk carik. We were searching for the first years -breastflow feeding bottle. Sblm ni faris pakai avent...tp sebab mama die saje2 nk tuka botol canggih sket...maka tukarla ke brand itew and the rest is history...he loves the bottle and he doesnt want any other bottle than that..fullstop.

Pretty late now..but needs to share some pics of us.Here they are!

Faris and Papa talking session

Mereka serupa...

That's me and Papa @ Kemaman, Terengganu




Our day out @ Melaka

Fasting and more fasting..

Faris the big guy

Im fasting today.Ganti utk thn lepas.Last year i was too sarat sampai rase nk pitam bile puasa.Ganjarannye....gantila banyak2~Inclusive tomorrow...i've got another 13 days to ganti..13 days ok~

Aircond kt opis sangatla kuat...rase nak beku je rasenye.Time sejuk2 camni mulala perut tu berbunyi macam2 rentak.Ignore...kuatkan iman...persetankan itu semua. Yg letih tu air toilet pon sejuk gile...trrrrr~rase nak bawak comforter je g opis.Tp kang tak ikut protokol plak...sigh~

Mata berat...tp memikirkan dateline nk anta agreement esok....kuatkan semangat....keep on doing research until..mate tertutup again.Damn~kang kantoi plak dgn boss.Tetau jam dh kul 5.30..ops, time to go home...say gudbyee office and welcome home sweet home!

No matter how bad my day could be...faris will always be the best medicine.Just by seeing him smiling...ahh~lega..feel glad to be home.Eventho sometimes he seems to ignore me and favour his papa more....simply because his papa is the one who put him to sleep.Ohh,whatever...maybe im just jealous with his papa for not getting his attention..err,whose the child here?

Faris drooling...tik...tik..tik~cam hujan

Faris is having fun here...tickle me mama!

Blurry faris in his walker



I really cant figure out wat he's doing in this pic...looks fishy though~


Faris watching tv

Welcome post

Hi all!

It's great to have finally created my own blog. I've been planning for quite some time...say before faris was even born to this world..hehe~

My baby faris is now 8mths+.Well, basically he can now say a word like "papa"..not mama...but papa...urghh~why?He can wave back when we waved at him. Crawl pretty fast.Can sit properly.and can stand with support but now he is trying to stand without support and guess no more...he keeps on falling. Sometimes dah terhantuk banyak kali pon degil jgk...hmmmm~Did i mentioned that he got 2 pusar on his head?

Org tua2 used to tell us that pusar 2 means extraordinary stubborn and hyperactive. Was also told that pusar 2 ni sesuai bela kambing. Yeah,we'll take that into consideration.~jadi tokey kambing la gamaknye.

Right now, faris is sleeping. He usually sleep at 9pm and wake up at 6.30am.Nangis 2kali...nk susu pastu tdo balik. Bangun mesti automatik bile kitorg nk pegi keje...tetibe jek terbukak mate die..hehe~Tp yg tak syoknye bile weekends la...tgh syok2 tdo tetibe ade plak tangan kecik yang menepuk2 muka....cess,rosak mimpi.

Niwei, this is the pic of faris and papa. It was taken few months back at Pengkalan Balak, Melaka. Gtg now!